We need more Connectworking

It has come to my attention of late that there is a growing need for networking, well that’s how it has been termed. This re-emergence of “networking” prompted me to contemplate why it is making a come back.

We all know we don’t want the old model of networking that was popular in the 80’s – I think we have moved on from the outdated “Here’s my business card” moment. I believe at a deeper level we know we are meant to connect socially for the purpose of our wellbeing and prosperity.

Here is my new view on the importance of networking, which I am going to term Connectworking. – 

Social and Spiritual ceremonies are crucial in developing our connections with each other and our SIXTH and SEVENTH senses. We have five senses that work to activate and maintain our body, but it’s in our social and spiritual ceremonies where we develop beyond our ordinary senses to recognize our extra-ordinary senses.

Because when we connect at this expanded level, we are connecting through the unseen “space” between us, we start to connect heart to heart, spirit to spirit and human to human. Creating a feedback loop of positive energy and resonance between and around us  – This act of social and spiritual ceremony builds our connection to the Cosmic Lattice, also known as the Field of Intent, the Unified Field or the Field of Possibility. This creates an expansion within our Soul and our consciousness, allowing for our evolution. The practice of “conscious evolution” is worthy of celebration and ceremony, because these sacred acts contribute to our cyclic evolution; Creating and participating in these conscious ceremonies are vital to our development as a collective.

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This is why socializing and networking etc, are part of our relationship building protocol.  Our ancestors and indigenous cultures have been practicing these “gathering rituals and ceremonies” for thousands of years.

So, what has changed? – I suggest what has changed is the motivation or intention of these gatherings – Let’s look at the bigger than Ben Hur wedding celebration that has become a spectacle in the form of a major event or moreover like the “performance” of a lifetime, rather than for the purpose of a sacred or special union between two lives. Often these larger than life events seem more important than the actual relationship, which ends a year or two later. Sounds harsh I know, but sadly its commonly true.

Major Sumner Ngarrindjeri Dance – Everything Is Connected from Change Media on Vimeo.

It’s the connection and ceremony that are the most important aspect of the celebration – the social and spiritual focus around the gathering invites everyone to participate in the process. And the conscious engagement of all who have been invited contributes to the quality and longevity of the desired outcome.

When two or more gather with an altruistic intention, we literally unite our light and create a higher resonance resulting in conscious evolution. So, yes we do need to network, but for a much greater purpose than simply exchanging business cards.



Contact – Elizabeth Ellames

Email : elizabeth.ellames@ozemail.com.au



The Magical Power of Self-Esteem

create time to dream

Hi peeps,

I have been in the hair, beauty and fashion industry since 1974… over the years I became a leading figure receiving many awards, to owning my own successful hairdressing business and my own fashion label.

Why am I telling you this… you might ask?

Well, there’s been many conversations and many transformations, some profound, some delightful and some very challenging. However, what I did come to realize over these many years of design and consultation, was that the service I was offering women was more than just a hair-do and a pretty frock.

It was, in fact, one of the few feminine rituals left for Women to share.

The adorning and passing on of stories was a powerful way to weave and create their sacred magic – the magic of self-esteem.

Today I’m a personal brand consultant and facilitator in my businesses Living Attributes Typology REEL DEAL Productions and Co-Founder of NOW Leadership Inc, which again provides a powerful space for personal growth, and the magic that creates self-esteem. You see my constant passion and vision has always been to bring Women back to their instinctual nature, by them consciously exploring the depths of their personal wisdom, which may have been shelved or denied for one reason or another. I still really love activating a woman’s light and bringing forth her beauty, and I do that by celebrating and honoring the powerful creational force that she is.

Do you still get caught in the trap of what you think you are supposed to be, contained by a dialogue of personal restrictions and fatigued by your own emotional inhibitions, eventually losing touch with your powerful soaring Spirit?

  • EMPOWERMENT CIRCLES invites your true beauty and uniqueness to be liberated and celebrated within a very powerful medium – “Other Women.” 
  • EMPOWERMENT CIRCLES are exquisitely enlightening and extremely well-grounded. Giving women practical social and spiritual support.
  • EMPOWERMENT CIRCLES gives you the tools that will enrich your Purpose in life and Birth true fulfillment in you again.

My motto in life is – Know Yourself, Trust Yourself, Discover Your Purpose And Live A Larger Story

Many of us today are out of touch with these essential rituals and processes. But by coming together with other women, to grow and be nourished, you instinctively start to remember what you are made of and how to best serve your needs before spilling forth your light and love to the world.

“My Cup Runneth Over” remember… So, your cup must runneth over first, before you can to pour forth your full generosity of spirit.

EMPOWERMENT CIRCLES grow truth, beauty, and hope; they are your community imbued with the message and vision of True Prosperity For All.

EMPOWERMENT CIRCLES restores your spirit each month.


 Elizabeth Ellames

YOU CAN BOOK IN TODAY – The cost for each circle session $30.00

EMAIL: elizabeth.ellames@ozemail.com.au

Message of Light for August

As you give of your heart, your mind will follow, for above the realm of reason rests the light and love of all that is worth having in one’s life.

And So it Is


Message of Light for June


My responsibility to you is to be me… for as I grow beyond my manufactured self and reveal my GodSelf I create more light, more love, more life.

And So It Is

Living with interdependence


Wow, there is a real building and unfolding occurring within at present.

I have been unwell for a few weeks and in that time I’ve had an amazing sense that I have been climbing a very steep mountain – little rocky at times, sometimes stormy and at other times very peaceful and refreshing.

Yep, that was my mountain (Mt Elizabeth) a mountain that I had to climb, I did it with a great team of other mountaineers – my family, my friends and my family of light, but ultimately I still had to do the climb myself. A great metaphor for me, an example of true interdependence, I always wondered what that word really meant, now I know.

That is real leadership. No one can do it FOR you, yet you can’t do it alone.

Over the years I’ve had to learn to do it together as a team – because when I see another’s greatness I see myself reflecting back. I can’t ever do anything from the place of aloneness again, I am now one because I am connected. My greatness is determined by who stands by my side and you Dear Ones, my community have stood by my side as I have yours. We have stood shoulder to shoulder facing the winds of change. My life will never be the same, for from our connections and our commitment I have reached higher ground. 

I now view life from a higher perspective, I can hear the Creators voice like it’s my own and I now breathe the fresh crisp air present at the dawning of a new day. 

Yes, that is us, you and me… the women of the Living Attributes community are the pioneering souls that are creating and bedded down a new pathway for humanity. That pathway is now growing and available for many to venture on and add their experience too.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.


Heart to Heart and Blessings Abound.
Elizabeth Ellames – The LIGHT Styler

Sublime Style


Learn how being your living Truth is all that matters.

As humans, we have the privilege of gracing our planet with our creativity and beauty… Let’s not disgrace it. 

“your costume customizes your character”


Elizabeth Ellames creator of the Living Attributes Typology 

Tel: 040 330 9696